Why we human being will get jealous over certain things? Did you ever asked yourself why?
One of the defination of jealous (want to know more go to http://dictionary.reference.com/) :
i) Fearful or wary of being supplanted; apprehensive of losing affection or position.
Scenario for BGRWhen you are in a relationship, will you allow your partners to go out with the opposite gender? Will you get jealous over it?
Yes! I will get jealous.
1) (Some guys' thinking) I have found the girl that I have been looking for. So of cause I am very concern about her, worry about her, wonder if she have eaten already(seem like I am her hubby already). I just want to let her know that I am the person that she can rely on. No one but me. When she is down I am there to be with her. When she is happy, I am the first to be there celebrate with her.
2) (Some girls' thinking) I may one day be his wife. I have all the rights to know where is he, what is he doing. When he is out with his friends, he will not let me worried about him.
3) Well, you are being caring and concern about your partner. When ever your partner says that he/she is going out with friends, you tend to think is it going out with the opposite gender? If not then you won't think much more or want him/her to elaborate further. Else, then who is the person relates to you? How you know the person?
These questions keep poping out in your mind unless you know the answers and all are being answered. Otherwise you just can't ease your mind. Why do you have this kind of thinking? Too much concern that leads you to become too suspicious over the issue.
Basic reason is because you really care about your loved one if not you won't even want to borther about him/her. Where is all the confidence that you have given in? All vanished? Or just that kind of feeling that your partner is your everything? He/she can only go out with you but no one else(don't you think that you are too selfish?). Your partner can has his/her freedom(in general, you are still not legally related to one another). So you have no reason to stop him/her to find friends.
No, I won't be jealous over this small matters
1) (Some guys' thinking) If I am going to "cheong"(clubbing), I am going out with a group of guy friends. Bringing my partner along will let others think that I do not have my own freedom. Always stick with my partner, do not have own decision. Boring person.
2) (Some girls' thinking) I loved to maixed around other people around me. I am still to young to tied with just that one guy. I have not explore the whole world yet. There are more to learn and more things to see. I have no time to be jealous over such matters.
3) You just don't want to tied to just one person in your life(he/she may not be the one). Even you are in a relationship, you still have all the freedom that you have to mixed around and find more friends and get to know more opposite gender to bloom another relationship. You are just so care free and no one will borther about what you are doing. Just a simple sms can solve all your problem. No need to report to another or watsoever(troublesome).