As I have told you in my previous entry how come I went MIA(missing in action). Yes! I am having my MST(mid semester test). Got back two papers till date. Did quite ok only, I did not really aim that high I guess. So not much of a pressure.
Looking around me, there are alot of classmates or schoolmates scored better than I do. Well done to you guys and girls. Keep up your good work. I think they had met their target.
Targets
Yup! Target! That's the entry title for today. Everyone will set their own targets. Let's talk about study first. You have aim/target 80 over for a particular module. But you did not manage to get the result that you expected. Then you must be thinking, you study very hard but how come it turns out like this.
Do not get too dishearted. Maybe you did study hard but are you studying too much that you got mixed up with other modules formulas(as a student I know how tough it is)? There are alot of maybe involved. Too much pressure and expectation in your studies will make things worst. if it did not turn out that well then the more you expect and the more you will get disappointed. Why don't take it easy and just try your best. In this way you will feel much better. So next time round try harder. Sure you will make it.
Friends & Partners
Up next is between friends and your partner. It is actually the same theory behind it. Of course, in friends and partners you do not talk about target but expectation.
The expectation from your partner is much more different from your friends. The person who will hurt you most is not your friend but is your partner. Your partner will be the one closer to you and not your friend. That is why you expect more from your partner than your friend.
More... the word itself tells you that it is important than the other. So your expectation from your partner will be more. Think again, if your partner did not meet your expectation that's where you feel hurt and quarrels comes in. That is the worst scene that anyone who is in a relationship would want to see.
Those people out there having a target is not a bad thing. Not to get disheart(knowing that you have done your best), try harder next time round. If everything is so smooth that no bums no hills to climb in your life. Then your life will be damn boring.
For those who are and want to be in a relationship; it is really not easily to find true love. Treasure the things around you. Understand them be it studies, people or even work. Cause everyday you are learning new things in life. So cherish the things that you have and you want to have them.
.:Nothing come as easy as what you think:.